By now you’ve heard about the “Momo Challenge,” and that it was more fad- hype than horror. But nightmares of the disturbing sculpture reminded us there are dangers lurking for children online. These days it’s just as important for parents to protect their children from internet danger as it is to keep little fingers out of light sockets and to teach kids safety when riding their bikes.
1. Stay informed
If this is your first foray as a digital patrol guard, educate yourself about the dangers today’s youth face on the internet like cyberbullying, cyberpredators, posting personal information and scams. Read site and game reviews and what their ratings are. Be aware of new technologies that your child may have access to. Knowledge is power.
2. Stay Tuned
Tune into what your child is viewing online. Taking an interest in what they are seeing and hearing, and what information they are sharing, is always appropriate. Having a Family Tech Room where your family can use their devices in an open environment helps you stay in tune.
3. Keep the Door Open
Keep the door for communication open between you and your child. It’s important that he or she feels safe sharing feelings and experiences with you for open discussions and teaching moments about safe internet practices.
4. Utilize parental controls
From watching videos on YouTube to playing MMORPGs (Massively multiplayer online role-playing games), and from smartphones to Xboxes, children can be exposed to people, sights, and sounds that can harm them. Parental controls put you in control. Some are free, like software with parental controls built in, while others can be purchased like Net Nanny, and Safe Eyes. Know which devices your child uses and exercise the parental controls available whenever appropriate.
5. Get Real
Plan “real life” activities inside and outside your home where your child can interact with family and friends. Schedule specific, limited times for using devices from tvs and computers to cell phones. Don’t forget to set a good example demonstrating technology is a wonderful tool, but there is a whole world of positive experiences to discover beyond a screen.